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Bringing Kids To Cremation Services-Tips And Advice

Published: September 26, 2022
by Webb & Stephens Funeral Homes

You know your kids best and you are the one who can predict how they will act and react in certain situations. If you are faced with attending cremation services in Collinsville, MS, there may be some instances in which you feel your child should come with you. Perhaps it was a family member they knew and you want them to be able to say goodbye as well. Maybe they are old enough to grasp death and you feel they would act in a respectful manner. Whatever your reasoning, if you are taking a child to a cremation service, here are some tips to help you make the best of the situation.

Talk To Your Kids About Expectations

You are going to want to have a conversation with your kids about what you expect from them at the cremation service, and what they should expect. It’s a good idea for them to know what the service will be like, what kinds of things they might see, and what is going to happen throughout the service. If the service is on the formal side, let them know there will be a bulletin that explains the order of events. If it’s casual, it might be easier for your child to feel at ease, but they still need to act nicely.

Emphasize Behavior Rules

It’s a good idea to go over what you expect from your child in terms of their behavior so they know how they can act and things they should avoid doing. Let them know that they need to be respectful and perhaps stay quiet during the service. They should keep electronics off and away and they need to be careful about disrupting other people in their own mourning processes.

Bring Something For Them To Do

Not all children are going to be able to sit through a service if it’s of the traditional nature. You might want to take some things for them to do so they can entertain themselves without interrupting others. You don’t want them playing on an iPad or anything, but reading a book or working on a coloring book can be helpful to keep them quiet and entertained while things are going on around them. Pre-arranging your own service will help to ease the burden on your loved ones.

Sit Near The Back

If your child does get wiggly, needs the bathroom, or decides it’s time to say something out loud—very loudly—it’s a good idea to sit near the back of the venue. You are going to want to be close to the exit in case you were to need it. Traditional funeral etiquette dictates that you should introduce yourself, starting with your name and how you knew the deceased.

Answer Their Questions With Care

Give your child a chance before, and after, the services to ask any questions they have. They may be feeling emotional and vulnerable and you need to be there to ensure they have the answers and comfort they need.

When you are invited to cremation services in Collinsville, MS for a loved one who passed on, it’s a good idea to consider certain things if you are trying to decide whether or not to take your kids along with you.

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